All You Notice is Where You Focus

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“Wasn’t she being a bitch?” my friend asked me. We were standing outside of David’s Bridal, in a sprawling mall that is egregiously large and difficult to navigate. There are escalators and smoothie shops and a Wetzel’s Pretzel sandwiched in between the Container Store and Best Buy and Baskin Robins. Spend money, says the mall, on all of these things you’ll…