9 Classic Signs of Narcissism
Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus is a book by Dr. John Gray, that “provides a practical and proven way for men and women to improve their communication by acknowledging the differences between their needs, desires, and behaviors.” Obviously, men and women are different. In a past, toxic relationship, I bought this book to help me figure out what was going wrong. Was I simply bad at communicating? It seemed that most of our arguments stemmed from poor communication, and I assumed, as many women do, that our problems were my fault.
I believe now that I was simply dating a narcissist. And in fact, I’m probably drawn to narcissists, like most people are. Men are almost 40% more likely to be narcissists than women, and narcissistic men are more likely than anyone to gain leadership roles or positions of power. Narcissists are often very charismatic, sure of themselves, and are masters at making positive impressions. As an empathetic person, I’m easily seduced by narcissists, drawn to their charm, and easily manipulated by their wants and desires. Or I was, until I figured this out. Below are nine signs of a narcissist. These are all character traits I’ve experienced first-hand. Once you know the signs, they are far easier to spot. *Fair warning.*
