10 Dating Mistakes

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We’ve all witnessed or engaged in some bad dating moves, and it’s not hard to do. Communication can be difficult, especially when so much of it is through screens. Back when I was heavily in the dating game, I made a list of some serious red flags and/or terrible mistakes. I’m here to impart my wisdom unto you. Don’t make my mistakes, or do, but learn from them. Thank you, and you’re welcome.

1. You’re Not Ready To Date

This happens all the time. Maybe you just exited a long relationship, or you’re unduly burdened by work obligations or other extenuating circumstances. Dating someone requires time, energy, and a willingness to compromise on some stuff. It’s good and healthy to take time for yourself if and when you need it.

2. You Engage in Unilateral Sacrifice

This happens when you give up your own interests and/or sacrifice more time than your partner. I see women do this almost without realizing it, but it’s a bad idea. Compromise to meet your partner halfway, yes. Lose touch with the things or people who make you feel like you? Not a chance. Be sure to guard yourself against anyone who demands more of you than is reasonable for you to give, and be okay walking away from a toxic person.